
The Strength of Women in Morales Duque, Colombia #TMMWVC #worldvisiongifts
The women of Morales Duque, in the south of Colombia, have gathered us inside a community centre. I am here to listen to their stories, as a representative of World Vision Canada visiting this country of contrasts. They hand us treats, and a traditional Colombian corn drink and a certificate signed by each member, thanking World Vision Canada.
I thought I knew what strong resourceful women looked like. I know a lot about strong women in the context of Canada and the United States. I have never had to look far for brilliant female role models. My Mother, my grandmother, my daughters, my friends. I am surrounded, and I was raised by strong women. But it is the women here in Colombia, who put strong into an entirely different perspective for me.
Throughout my week spent in Colombia I repeatedly hear this term: women as head of household. I loosely translate it in my head to be single mothers. We have those too. Raised by a single Mom, I am familiar with this. I think this a day or two. Then one night we are eating at a restaurant and I see it printed right there on the menu – we employ only women as head of households. How can they do that, I wonder. There must be more to it. Finally I ask: “what do they mean by this term exactly?” “Why do I keep hearing this?”
Our translator and the many other people working here with Vision Mundial Colombia explain. In the areas of Colombia where narco-trafficking was a big issue for many years, in the impoverished areas, men have often gone missing. Many men have been victims of forced disappearances. Some men were drawn into various paramilitary groups. Others were killed. Women were left with their children and often little or no income. Women as head of household.
Colombia is a country of 47.5 million inhabitants. It is also a country of contrasts. There are very well off families and there are also some of the most impoverished vulnerable families you could ever imagine finding anywhere. Areas that shock you at how incredibly vulnerable the people there are to drugs, disease, and despair.
The Facts:
- The Colombian Population – 47.5 million.
- Unemployment is at 8 %.
- Underemployment is higher at around 50 %.
- Young people find it extremely hard to gain a job.
- Child Labour is 12.85 % of the workforce.
- Colombia has an extremely high rate of displaced persons. Many estimates are as high as 4 million displaced.
- 14.8 million live in poverty in Colombia.
The women in this country are a force for change and a unique movement that is both inspirational and remarkable. Colombian women, in general, have often overcome great obstacles, hardship and heartbreak. But they are strong, resilient, beautiful and hard working. They are volunteers and Moms and leaders in their communities like Morales Duque. They are absorbing all of the knowledge that World Vision Canada has given them and turning around to share it with the rest of the community. They are building strength, generating new programs and businesses.
[tweetthis]This community centre in Morales Duque was built with donated money given through the World Vision gift catalogue. [/tweetthis]
At each stop of our travels this week we have met remarkable resourceful Colombian women, raising young women and young men, often alone. In Morales Duque, the women wish to share with us their new community centre and the programs they are building there. This community centre was a gift, built with donated money given through the World Vision gift catalogue. It has cost roughly $90,000. Several gift catalogue donations made up the final sum that bought a community centre that is now a safe place for children and families in this city.
This group of women in Morales Duque call themselves Asolinco. Here, a World Vision Canada ADP (area development program) was established 15-18 years ago. Here, there was extreme poverty and gang activity. By Canadian standards, this was a slum. Now Morales Duque is vibrant with children who are strong and driven and connected to their community of youth. They are the first sign that World Vision Canada has done hard work here. There is still gang activity and domestic heroin abuse is extremely high in this area. Nearby Santander De Quilichao has the second worst level of heroin use in Colombia.
But this community centre holds after school classes for children, where the kids craft and learn about a youth movement called Peace Keepers. They spend their after school hours here so that idle time does not leave them prey to gangs. Inside this gifted space, a community grows healthy kids and families. The children learn about children’s rights. The women learn and grow their businesses. Some are practicing fundraising skills.
The women in Asolinco were the first volunteers with the ADP in Morales Duque. The ADP process often starts with identifying some clear leaders in each community and gaining their trust, then working through relationships within the communities themselves. Many of the areas where displaced people have made their homes in Colombia have been haphazardly planned, or not planned and it is not uncommon to find a family whose home was taken by narco-traffickers living beside a family who once has a member connected to narco-traffickers. That has led to very volatile cities and neighbourhoods. World Vision Canada very often builds peaceful connections first. Then that network of community leaders implements programming.
“We have learned to continue the work that we started when we were part of the ADP,” says one of the community volunteers with pride. The women leaders of Asolinco outline five or six big projects they have built since World Vision Canada finished their ADP project here.
“One of the projects we are working on has to do with food sustainability. We teach people how to use their land effectively, how to grow gardens in their homes.”
They share organic gardening practices. They teach families how to compost and then also how to use as much of the plant material as possible. They also use organic materials.
The Asolinco group of women have a community speakers committee that also connects with other business and government organizations to fundraise and build their initiatives. They have started a rotating loan fund that helps to birth new businesses. One of those businesses is Amelia’s Baked Goods, a successful home baked Colombian treats venture named for one member’s mother.
Before we leave they list off half a dozen plans for the future of Asolinco. A soup kitchen, a centre that works on promoting gender equality and a space to combat and educate members about violence against women.
“In this space women can come and get help. Before we had this room we didn’t have a space to meet. This is our dream. We collect Moms and Dads here and the kids see us as an example and they carry on building a strong community. We try to show the older women in the community how they can get invalid. We try to show the children too what you can do. They are the future and there is hope here even in a place that has suffered so much.”
I am sharing my journey to Colombia with World Vision Canada here on the blog in a series.
You can read
Part 1: The Briefing
Part 2: Where Hope Lives
Part 3: What a Soccer Ball Looks Like
Part 5: Two Hands Are Enough
Sponsor a child and change a community. Or you can buy something for someone this year that makes a difference to an entire community like this one. There is a bit of everything in the gift catalogue. From soccer balls, to chickens and goats to latrines and medicine. Or you can help to buy a community centre. Visit the gift catalogue here: http://bit.ly/1pbSZpV
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I travelled with World Vision Canada as a guest so I could tell these stories.


30 Comments
Randa Derkson
Wow. Those women go through so much, I couldn’t imagine living a life where my husband could be killed or kidnapped and then running the house is up to me.
Those women are definitely strong.
Lisa Fab Frugal Mama
Wow… what powerful stories of families and communities who have been changed for the better through the help of World Vision. I am blown away by the strides that these wonderful Columbian women have taken towards financial independence and fighting crime. Kudos to you for going there to learn their stories first-hand. What a great post to share with us… thank you!
Mom vs. the boys
that is terribly sad about the missing men and how the families have to go on without them. I couldn’t even imagine that horror. These women are so strong and I love that they are sharing their strength and knowledge to raise children who will strive to make a difference in the community
Spaceships
WOW! These woman are so strong. I couldn’t imagine having to deal with that fear and worry every day.
Masshole Mommy
Holy cow, that is an amazing group of women. So sad about the missing men, though.
Lady Lilith
This sounds great. There are so many amazing people and getting there stories told is super important.
becca
Wow what strong women. They go through a lot they are strong and inspiring.
Coolmoms Cooltips
I have no idea where this town is, and I am Colombian!
Wow, yes, our poor county has suffered years of violence that harm people terribly. godd thing is there is always this warrior spirit that keeps us smiling. Women are such a force around the globe. Thanks for contributing so much to my country!
Paula Schuck
What a lovely thing to say. Thank you for your comment. I believe that women are a force , to be reckoned with too.
Heather @ Girl Gone Mom
I love this. It blows my mind how far small contributions really go in third world countries.
Chrystal Mahan
We always here such horrible stories about Columbia. I can’t get over their child working rate. 12% is so high. That is no life for a child, but sadly this is the only life they know.
Maria
It breaks my heart that so many of these countries are in poverty. My mother is Guatemalan and I have seen pictures of their home with dirt floors. Thank you for sharing their story.
Lois Alter Mark
These women are amazing and so inspiring. I love reading your stories and getting to know what’s going on in other parts of the world and people whose lives are so different than ours.
April Mims
What an amazing experience you had! It is so inspiring to see how strong other women are. It’s really alarming to see some of these statistics.
ANNIE M
These women are so inspiring, I cannot imagine living in their shoes. Thank you for sharing yours & their story with us 🙂
Erica Brooks
Very inspiring story. Those women are so strong. It’s great that they are providing a safe place and activities for the children so they don’t fall prey to gangs.
Pam
I agree, these women do put the words “strong women” in a whole new atmosphere. They are incredible and inspiring and it is great to read and find about them and how they lead their lives.
Viccy Howe
What a fantastic and inspiring article, thank you. It;s really made me rethink 🙂
Krystal Butherus
A powerful story. Thank you for giving me something to think about.
mail4rosey
I know someone who just visited for a few weeks. I’m sharing your link with her, I know she’d love to read the perspective!
Calendar Girl 365
I’ve been following this whole series, but this post really puts things in perspective. I feel like I know these women, as I share the same fears but for different reasons. We are all one breath away from tragedy. Thank you for sharing their stories.
Ann B
These are strong women for sure. Your stories of your travels with World Vision Canada are powerful. I look forward to reading more.
Nikki
This is so interesting, such a great perspective on what strength in women means in other countries. Thank you for sharing!
Alice Chase
What an amazing experience. It is one thing to know about this but to actuall get to see it with your own eyes makes it so much deeper.
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I can’t even imagine what they go through every day. This post really opened my eyes. Amber n
Mommy 2 J.A.M.
WOW is all I can say. ITs heartbreaking yet so beautiful how strong these women are.
Lee-Ann
I love when people do meaningful travel. Kudos to you!!
heidi c.
How strong and beautiful these women are. World Vision Canada seems to be a wonderful organization.
sarah jackson
We all need to read this , we tend to forget how privileged we truly are . What a super strong bunch of women !!
Dream24
Wow these women as so strong and preserve no matter what. This is what we need most these days. Kudos women for everything you have done!